When the Bible says that Joseph and Mary were married, that means they had sex — that’s part of marriage. Consummation isn’t optional.
Allow me to be blunt: If you’ve never had sex with her, she isn’t your wife.
Admittedly, I am probably not (in debate) the nicest person you will ever meet.
However, I challenge anyone who reads this to find something I’ve said that was factually untrue — bonus points if you find something that I knew was untrue.